New When A Person Tells You You Hurt Them
Images. Your thoughts on this ? When a person tells you that you hurt them, you don't get to decide that you didn't. ― louis c.k.
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When you keep that in perspective, it's easier. The thing people want most when they're hurting is for you to act as a sounding board and to show if the person's feelings don't make sense to you, that makes the next step all the more important. They see the damage they have suffered.
First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win. you of course can then decide if you hurting them was justified or not, as it is in some cases.
They are the last refuge of the complex. In lots of cases people just don't know who they really are and what they are capable of. First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win. you of course can then decide if you hurting them was justified or not, as it is in some cases. They doubt their own ability to assess truth and make decisions.
